Raising triplets is basically juggling…while riding a unicycle…on a tightrope. Suddenly, every task takes three times longer – feeding, changing, cuddling, even saying “hello.” Finding ways to give each baby attention without losing your mind is an art, but it can be done.
“Some days it feels impossible to give equal attention – but showing up, even imperfectly, is more than enough.”
Mini one-on-one moments are gold. Even five minutes of focused attention with each baby can make them feel seen – and give you a tiny sense of normalcy. Read a story, sing a song, or share a cuddle. Bonus: it makes you feel like a superhero, even if your cape is covered in spit-up..
Multitasking intelligently is your secret weapon. Bath time, tummy time, or storytime can all be done together. When individual attention is needed, pair one baby with you while the others nap, play, or hang with a helper. It’s not perfect, but in triplet land, “good enough” is a victory.
And let’s not forget you. Self-care isn’t optional – it’s survival. A shower, a coffee, or even five minutes of quiet counts as a power-up so you can show up fully for all three without losing your sanity.
Making Every Moment Count
Balancing time and attention with triplets isn’t easy – and some days it feels downright impossible – but it’s also deeply rewarding. Focus on small, meaningful moments, embrace multitasking when you can, and don’t forget to take care of yourself along the way. Every cuddle, giggle, and shared meal counts, and even five minutes of one-on-one time can make a huge difference. The chaos will be real, the mess will be epic, but the love and connection you build with each baby? Absolutely worth every exhausted, coffee-fueled minute.